Monday, April 29, 2013

She is not asking for it.

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She is not asking for it:
Her shorts, her minis, her backless do not pose any kind of danger to the society.
By roaming anywhere at any time, she is not a threat to the human civilization in any way.
When she hangs out with her boyfriend or male friends, it does not make her less of a woman.
She does not shame womanhood when she laughs at adult jokes.
She is not a commodity or a wall that is dented and painted when she wears makeup.
Her friendly and free nature doesn't mean her body is available to anyone.


He is sick:
When he throws lewd remarks and gestures at her, it make him less of a man.
Identifying women as inferior makes him unmanly.
When he roams at night with hunger in his eyes for his prey puts the human civilization in peril.
When he vulgarly eyes a woman, undressing her in his mind, it endangers the civilized society.
His barbaric intentions and actions towards woman, makes him a beast.
His perception of women as a toy to fulfill his sexual urges shames not only all the men but every human on planet.


We need a society which does not ask any girl... a woman to not to step out at night nor asks her how to dress up.
We need a society which asks the boys..the men to treat a woman as a human.
We need a society which doesn't blame the victim but punishes the culprit.

I am a woman and I want to breath in life freely .. beautifully .. humanely.


33 comments:

  1. 'I am a woman and I want to breath in life freely .. beautifully .. humanely.' Absolutely, That's the birth right of every woman and no body got the right to disturb the freedom.

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    1. Exactly, and its high time people realize it.

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  2. Kill the Sick .. or the sickness or both ... Women need to fight it out themselves ... against those Sick beasts under the skin of men ... Most of we men are lot weaker than womankind and can easily be taken for a ride !! at least i am surrounded by men who are lions only when their wives and girfriends do not show up !!

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    1. Its just not upon women alone but the entire mankind. To begin with, the values that are imbibed in children shouldn't be gender biased.

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  3. Inspiring post! It really is sad to note how people bvlame women instead of accusing the real culprit! When emotions are not controlled they are dangerous and harmful!

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    1. It starts with gender discrimination and then a vicious cycles follows. Sad state indeed.

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    2. And thanks.. hopefully this post brings in some improvement in the society.

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  5. "I am a woman and I want to breath in life freely .. beautifully .. humanely." yes, yes yes! such a lovely post Namrota...

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    1. Thanks, Little Princess... The claustrophobic environment that's been created for us must go away.

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  6. true,we need to change our perception and thinking towards women.Vulgarity is always in the eyes.Very nice post.

    You made me to follow you .:)

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    1. Thanks for the appreciation... and for the follow Gunjan, support fuels my writing. :)

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  7. Very Well written indeed !! But I would like to point out that rapes do not happen for deriving sexual pleasures AT ALL. This is a huge misconception. Rapes happen because they are either mentally sick, or because they find women as easy targets to release their anger/frustration.

    And yes ! I totally agree that we should stop gender discrimination and i believe it will happen when we do it consciously. For example, stop choosing pinks for your baby girl or stop gifting your little girls "kitchen sets" as toys BECAUSE she is a girl. All these little things matter and begin in childhood, so conscious efforts are very necessary :)

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    1. Rashu... indeed... hence, I have pointed out on how women are looked as mere objects.

      Yes, conscious efforts are necessary even in our school text books where Ram always goes to school and Sita always helps her helps her mom in chores.

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  8. Very well said!!!
    High time we all started speaking out loudly about the repression and gender discrimination in our country.
    I look forward to reading more from you Namrota!
    Keep up the great work!

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    1. Thank you Shweta.
      I agree its high time we speak, we act against the discrimination, against the repression and live like a human.

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  9. You are right. The "he" you describe is a beast. Not human. Ugh. Luckily, most of us know better, normal, human men and can be normal with them, ourselves.

    The other kind should feel afraid to act on their ugly thoughts. Step 1 - let's vote out the ones who condone their thoughts and actions or are like that, themselves.

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    1. Exactly, and I feel that the better, normal, human men are more than the other kind...but its the passive nature of the society & of the govt. that's nurturing the beasts who are turning our societies into hell.

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  10. Thats a wonderful message Namrota, thats so true. Its the way that men in our society are brought up that causes these problems. You wudnt find as many cases of rapes or women insecurity in countries where no one asks women to be dressed up or down.

    Indian men are way too MCPs and narrow minded. Mothers need to grow up their kids with inculcation of respect to women value deeply.

    love the pic and message

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    1. Thank you SJ.
      That's what is needed to uproot the crimes against women... mind set needs to change and that can happen only when kids are raised with proper values... that would work as prevention.

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  11. Very insightful post and you have very well given answers to the despicable remarks made by the so called immoral politicians etc.
    You have brought the perspectives in a very good way.

    Mindset has to be changed! It begins all at home and since childhood days..

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    1. Thank you Kislaya. Its high time society stops being ignoramus fool and be practical and logical to curb the problem which lies deep rooted within our values.

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  12. at last someone has taken into consideration both sides of the coin. nicely told and expressed :)

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    1. Thanks Saurabh... what hurts more is .. the victim is still treated as culprits. the perception of our society has lowered.

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